The signs they give to show it often go undetected for long periods. They may shed more, gain weight, lose weight, stop playing, become destructive, over-groom and produce more hairballs, or under-groom and let their fur become matted, dull and dirty feeling. These signs are often missed all together or dismissed as aging. Meanwhile the cat falls deeper and deeper into depression and searches for new ways to show it. Then there’s the breaking point for both cats and humans, which is usually when the random urinating and defecating begins.
So if your cat starts urinating or spraying on the walls, something is not only very wrong, but it is likely that your kitty is pulling out all the stops to tell you. This is a cat’s ultimate cry for help, and they’ll find whatever corner, closet, or pillow they can to waive their stinky yellow flag of surrender. Why do they do it? What else could they do? They can’t talk otherwise they’d tell you things aren’t right. So naturally, they use the only tools they have: their waste.
Your cat’s problem could be medical, behavioral, or both. While we recommend always checking with your vet to eliminate any medical issues with your pet first, never underestimate the power stress has on an animal’s health. Stress and medical issues often go hand in hand, so consider your pet’s mental well being too and avoid repeat trips to the vet to treat the same stress produced problems. Lots of things can cause depression, stress, or general unhappiness in cats, but it usually boils down to one culprit: Change. Most cats become very comfortable in their daily routines, especially when they are solely indoor pets. Their world is a small one and therefore very easily disrupted. Finding the cause of the the problem can often be a difficult question to answer since cats are known and loved for their mysterious nature.
The good news is resolving a problem with a cat is usually more about accommodating them. For example: You can’t help it when you have visitors that smell funny to your cat, but you can make sure your cat has a safe zone when they feel imposed upon. Happiness will prevail and your cat can learn to cope. What makes a cat happy anyway? Good food makes happy, healthy pets. It is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing you can do for your animal. Chemicals effect behavior and health, so if you are buying cheap grocery brand food for your cat, spend a little more to change to a premium food and save yourself some money on vet bills in the long run.
You’ll also spare your cat a painful and early death in the process. Introduce the new food slowly, mixing it in with the old over the course of a few weeks until the bad stuff is phased out. Also, clean their dishes daily, especially the water dish. Cats need fresh clean water and will shun a dirty dish no matter how new the water is. If you had to wade through sewage every time you went to the bathroom, you’d pee in the corner too. Change out the litter entirely once a week.
We don’t care what those litter makers say: nothing stays fresh for a month after being peed on every day, not even the super expensive stuff. Cats are gifted and natural hunters. If your cat stays inside all day, life can lose purpose pretty fast. Set time aside every morning and evening to play a little. Get out the string, the mousie, or the little milk carton tab that they love to bat around and get them running. There are also some great games and challenges you can give your cat to awaken the tiger within.
50 Games to Play with Your Cat. From food games to teaching them tricks, your cat may be more gifted than you think. If you have multiple pets or lots of family like we do, you may find the need to give your cat their own space. They need a spot to feel safe and sleep during the day, especially if your home is prone to hectic activity and lots of visitors. This spot is safe from everyone: kids, dogs, noise, etc. It should be dark so they can sleep and covered to give a sense of security. Cats are famously simple creatures who often prefer cardboard boxes and paper bags to fancy store-bought beds. Experiment a little and see what they like. We covered a cardboard box in cute material once for one of our cats who would sleep in nothing else. Sunlight is a natural anti-depressant, and something our cats need despite their nocturnal nature. Therefore every cat needs a peaceful spot in the sun where they can nap and work on that summer tan.